I am the child of an Alcholic

What I have learned through thearpy is that I should not be ashaned of who I am, and where I came from. I have come to a place of reality and I speak what I feel, and I dont hold back. Along this journey God has allowed me to see who is really in my life for a good reason, and has exposed all the devils "workers" the people he is using to make me fail and get me down.

Whats unfortunate is that some of these people are dressed in the clothing of "family" Its a hard pill to swallow but its down, and I have moved on.

I am at a point where I know who I need in my life, and if you dont serve me any positive purpose, its easy for me to just let go. Thank God for the reject list on my phone, lol. And people will soon realize that they are on this list.

I dont hold grudges, Im not upset or bothered by it. Trust me I moving on and have no time to hold onto anything negative. Im blessed..

Alot of people have gotten on my case for exposing my father as an alcoholic. And the truth is, what are really doing by acting like this doesnt exsit? What are we teaching our children. We grew up thinking this was normal, that this was ok. And its something everyone sees and no one talks about. The elephant in the room, as they say. Im tired of whispering behind his back, and being embarrassed, this is who he is  MY FATHER IS AN ALCOHOLIC! That is something I am not ashamed of. Because I know I didnt do anything wrong, it is what it is. Thats our reality.

I refuse to live in a world where Im trying to hide something that everyone can see, Im tired of being ashamed and holding my tongue for anyone.

I write this because if you are reading this. Please know that you are not what your parents are, your parents do not define you. Dont be ashamed of where you have come from. Because that will only make the amazing person you are, that much more amazing!

No one is perfect, and those who claim to be, only hide it better then others.


be yourself, because baby, there is no one in this world that can do that better then you! You are amazing!