I just ordered my tripod so that I can upload more videos!! I hate sitting here writing...But here I am. I have lots to talk about and have been going through so much that at this moment I wouldn't know where to begin.
Let just say that my niece who is 15 is going through....IDK I don't want to say normal teenage stuff because GOD I hope that this isn't normal. She is "in love" with this boy who hits on her and treats her like Sh%t, excuse my language. We have done everything we can to keep away but she keeps going back and running away to be with him and even got a tattoo of his name on her chest. So, there is nothing we can do. Believe me even the cops told us that there is nothing we can do. Its gotten to the point where now she will be handed over for the state to put in her some center so that she can get help.
I am not sure how many talks I have had with this girl. It makes me so sad and when I really sit down and think about It makes me very emotional. I love my niece and I will do for her, and my nephews, what I would do for my own child! Its heart braking because at this point I don't blame the boy, I mean he is not good for her, but I know that if she valued herself more, she wouldn't be with him. She doesn't value her self, and she doesn't know her worth.
its a shame because she is going through things that an adult woman goes through. It always makes me sad when a woman especially a young woman doesn't know there worth. This is something that all of us have to learn. With out knowing what we are worth we will settle for anything. I thank God that I have some how always known mine. I went through a period where I wanted someone to love me. I got into a relationship that was not healthy but I have NEVER allowed anyone to disrespect me and because HE didn't know my worth I left.
Once you know your worth you will settle for nothing less than what you know you deserve.
My niece is a beautiful young woman that had so many goals and they have all faded when she met this guy. Its so frustrating and it makes me sick
I hope that mothers out there that have girls will teach there daughters, at a young age, to value themselves and know their value. That they know how to love themselves and not let anyone tell them who they should be and who they are.
The biggest lesson I have eve learned is that....I know I will not be enough for a lot of people but for one person I will be more than enough....Everyone should wait for that person that they are more than enough for!!!
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